if only...

if only my job would not compel me to wake up in the middle of the night.........

 

it would be bearable

 

and yessss,

i would want respondents who made sense!

To All the Ladies in the House

To all the ladies in the house....

1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you
happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer
schools, or move across country, always do what
you really want.

2. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping
it real doesn't mean speaking Ebonics.

3. Never apologize for giving your best in a
relationship that just didn't work out.

4. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters
want to keep you at their level.

5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof
mascara and express yourself.

6. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose.
People who truly care about you will accept you as
you are.

7. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because
you save your money instead of blowing it on the
latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're
cheap.

8. Don't apologize for being a single mom. Babies
are a blessing.

9. Never apologize for treating yourself to
something special. Sometimes you have to show
yourself some appreciation.

10. Never apologize for leaving an abusive
relationship. Your safety should always be a
priority.

11. Never apologize for keeping the ring even if
wedding bells won't chime.

12. Never apologize for setting high standards in a
relationship. You know what you can tolerate and
what simply gets on your nerves.

13. Never apologize for saying NO.

14. Never apologize for asking for what you want in
bed. If you don't, then who will?

15. Never apologize for wearing a weave. You bought
it so it's yours.

16. Never apologize to your new friends about old
friends. There's a reason she's been your girl
from day one.

17. Never apologize for ordering dessert. Or more
than one dessert.

18. Never apologize for dating outside your race.
Just because you found Mr. Right across the
color line doesn't mean you don't love your brothas.

19 . Never apologize for not knowing how to cook.
Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how
to order good take out.

20. Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's
your style.

21 . Never apologize for changing your mind.

22 . Never apologize for exercising your right to
choose. It's your body and your right.

23. Never apologize for making more money than your
man, you work hard and you deserve to get paid.

24. Never apologize for being you! "KEEP YOUR HEAD
UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD".

hinumdumi ni!

FIRST ONE!!

 

 1. Kung muingon mi nga gwapa ka, ayaw dayon
 tubag ug "atik!"...Panagsa ra mi mu dayg ug
 gwapa...obyusleh, kung gitawag ka
 nga "gwapa" naa jud mi enteres nimo...kinsa man
 sad kuno ang tarong nga laki tawagon
 kang "bati'g nawng!" atubangan sa kadaghanan...
 Di kaha mi katilaw ug plying kick ana?

 

 2. Mangutana gani mi kung kanus-a imong RD ug
 kung abelabol ba ka ana, kana nagpasabot
 kung pwede ba ka ma detdet (DATE ba sa
 iningles)...ayaw sa mi baraha kay mangutana lagi
 mi nimu ug strait...amo lang gityming-tyming
 kay mauwawon man sab tawn mi mga
 kwanggolon...
 
 3. Kung nakabantay na ka nga nagsige na mi ug
 sunod-sunod nimo, maka-baynte na mi
 ug grit nimo gud morning, or ikaw na lang
 pirmi tagdon,  makig dungan ug uli
 bisan nort ug sawt, langit ug lupa ang gilay-
 on sa atong balay wid matching
 "Ako lang dala sa imo tings beh!", kana
 ganahan jud mi nimo...
 Pero sa pirmi natong kinuyog ug detdet (DATE
 sa ininggles pa), ayaw sad pangutana
 ug dali-dali "Wat r we?" or sa binisaya pa,
 "Unsa man jud diay ta?"...Inahak, makulbaan
 sad mi gamay...we also feel a bit presyur...
 Kalma lang gud...musulti lagi mi in dyu
 taym. =)
 
 4. Kung kahibaw na jud ka nga ganahan mi nimo
 kay nisulti na man jud mi (hala ka!)
 Ayaw sad sige hisgot sa imo Ex-boypren
 oi...its hurt man sad...not unlis kung nisturya
 ka sa panahong gigukod siya sa inyong IRO
 nga nisutoy siya ug dagan kay por syur
 I will lap wid u.
 
 5. Hangyo lang sad, kung nakakita ka sa imong
 crush o di ba kaha nakakita ka ug laki nga
 purting gwapoha, ayaw sad panguhit
 namo, "Gwapo kay siya noh?"
 Hala plis! Laki intawn mi ug dili pud mi
 kiligon sa imong crush...
 Masuko ra ba mo mu comentaryo mi, "Gwapo pa
 man akong lolo ana!"
 
 6. Sa panahon nga mag-date na tah, por syur kami
 man jud gasto, be konsyus wid yor dayet
 ha para konsyus pud mi sa among bulsa...kung
 kada adlaw na ta date ug nakabantay mo
 nga chippy ug tubig na lang among gi-order,
 KKB na ta ha...salamat sa pagsabot.
 
 7. But op cors labaw sa tanan, ayaw kaayo ni
 ninyo siryusuha kay basin mu comantaryo mo,
 mapikon mo ug ibalik ni ninyo nako, mamisti
 mo....Dyok dyok ra ni...
 
 8. Pero kung dili na jud madala kay naglagot jud
 mo mga babaye ani...Iporward sa tanang
 babaye nga kaila ninyo nga wala pa
 makabasa....
 Pag porma dayon mo ug grupo nga Gabriella
 CEBU chapter....
 
 9. Sa mga lalake, kalingawi ninyo ug porward
 pero ayaw sa inyong naibgan kay basin
 instant basted niya mo ana!
 
 Pahabol: Kung magpakuyog mo mirkado...ayaw pud
 mi paalsaha ug usa ka sakong bugas...
 Kilo-kiloha pud na....=)

100 things to do before i die- swiped from my online buddy misyel, who i think writes lovely!

 

1. bear twins with raspberry cheeks or maybe have 4 daughters

2. not screw up as much friendships or relationships

3. marry my not pinugos God's Will Guy

4. be a better achee

5. not think of my self or my pain or my what have i as much

6. and yesss, i do not know how to ride a bike too, learn it!

7. learn how to drive and drive from davao to gensan

8. serve in a mission...

9. get a decent paying job and be better at it and love it

10. think of better things to do til the end of 2005

11. write loooong letters to jace and mail them even if she won't reply

12. try not to pass judgement as much

13. stay in the bahamas for 6 months

14. retire in davao

15. get into a retail business

16. learn accounting all over again, try to fall in love with it

17. give the best life to my folks

18. be more particular with my anwsers to the list, hehe

19. learn mandarin again

20. date someone who's up for the challenge of a relationship

21. farm!

22. travel muchos, take vacations

23. eat more veggies

24. learn a new skill such as PC troubleshooting

25. knit!

26. let go of grudges

27. save up enuf

28. do yoga or have some understanding of it

29. run

30. not make rash decisions

31. visit the lladro pottery in spain

32. meet forgiveness

33. buy a dozen cheek rouge and send them to my best girls

34. own a home

35. own a 2nd home in cebu

36. create family traditions

37. be completely debt-free

38. swim with the dolphins

39. be the greatest spouse ever

40. love love love

41. bake more cakes

42. have tea time like english gentry does it Ü

43. understand poetry

44. build a library

45. visit a good museum

46. do pottery

47. do random acts of kindness every so often

48. study merchandising, or fashion merchandising

49. be a studio audience of oprah

50. win a lottery, hehehehehe galore

51. get a vera wang dinner dress, haha, baliw

52. construct the best bathroom

53. visit an obscure place i wouldn't even think of visiting at the moment

54. fullfill some orphaned kid's wish

55. die happy

56. be less sickly

57. not to be as lazy and stick with a job

58. remove stains, haha

59. start a china collection

60. am stopping at 60, i'll think of the rest laters...

61. get lisa ling's autograph Ü

-sharon cuneta on turning 40-

 

"when you're turning 40. you'll say 30 is such a baby age.... pag nag 40 ka, feeling mo ang dami mong dinaanan. Madami pero hindi pala ganun kadami...

 

ÜÜÜ

♥ HEART

i wouldn't really know if it's beaten this bad,

but am sure it's not numb...

cuz it sure is hurting...

Lord, how will i understand yer ways with my HEART?

style sleuths

just when i thought CNN.com had nothing but news, i might have had thought wrong.... they have this special report link and college correspondents would do the story....

 

kabaliwan at kamateryosohan galore, yet, it's all good =)