i feel you... bottomline: he's just NOT that into you...

swiped from mai's (ms. america) bulletin post.....

 

1. If a man wants you,nothing can keep him
away.If he doesn't want you,nothing can make him
stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.

3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a
man's character,leave him alone.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be.

6. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy.



7. If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no you
can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.

8. Have faith in God regarding your
relationship,but don't let faith make you stupid.God
does things
decent and in order.

9. Don't settle.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get
better."You'll be mad a year after for staying
when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.

12. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you;
he doesn't want you.

13. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.If
something bothers you,speak up.

15. Like from the show Sex and the City,if he
doesn't call,he just isn't that interested.

16. Know when to cut the cord,don't be strung
along.

17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role".Remove
yourself from the situation to let him figure things
out (but don't wait for him,move on).

18. If you want to have a clue as to how he will
treat you,watch how he treats the WOMEN in his
family(not just mom).

19. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a
man,nothing more nothing less.

20. Actions speak louder than words.

21. Never let a man define who you are.

22. If he cheated with you,he'll cheat on you.

23. Just because he says he loves you,doesn't
mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean
that you are meant to be with him.

24. Know that you deserve to be the number one
person in the life of the ..1 person in your life.

25. Love is a verb.

26. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to
make someone unavailable-available,someone
ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

27. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW
him to treat you.

28. If you don't love yourself...you can't love anyone
else.

29. You cannot mend someone else's broken
heart

30. You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship.

31. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two
WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary..

32. NEVER give more in a relationship than you
are getting out of it.

33. When actions and words conflict, believe the
actions.Respond to the actions.

34. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving
type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in
this world
(within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.

35. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man
always know where you are,and you're always
readily available to him he takes it for granted..

36. When it's time to let go;let go.

37. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give
you everything that you need.Keep him in your
radar but get to know others.

38. Never believe a man that tells u he want to be
with you, while he's with someone else, - if he
wanted to be with you,he would make it happen
more sooner than later.

39. Don't be at a man's door,make him open the
door for you,because a real man would do this on
his own.

40. There is someone out there worthy to be in
your life...


the bottom line is.. it comes in just 6 words....
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU