Monday, December 26, 2005

to let go

To Let Go...
To let go doesn't mean to stop caring, it means i
can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization
that I don't control another.
To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning
from
natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try change or blame another, I
can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be
a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the
outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own
outcomes.
To let go is not to be protective, it is to permit
another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny but to accept.
To let go is not to nag,scold, or argue, but to
search out my own shortcomings and to correct
them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires
but to take each day as it comes and to cherish
the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone but
to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past but to grow and
live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more...

4 comments:

  1. true ito sister!!!
    letting go is just sometimes = to forgiving..

    we learn from the past and head on..never lose the inability to love because you got hurt by another..life is so short to waste it on hate..(wink!)

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  2. hahay. ganun nga ata talga mare

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  3. i learned this to be so true this year..its because im afraid to let go that i hate...
    hugs rae

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  4. hi jace imishu muchos, i do not know when i wud ever endup seeing you, hehehe...jace, it's going to be three years since i last saw you...hahahay.

    i wish i knew what to fear jace..hehehe

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